Tips on Finding Romance
At its core, romance involves doing something to express affection in a meaningful yet unexpected way. Many would say that romance is about love, yet even love is elusive, and, if that be the case, how should one go in finding romance? Finding the right romantic partner is often a difficult journey, for several reasons.
Loving yourself first
By knowing your innermost feelings, and not being confused about it, you’ll be able to know on whether you love yourself or abandoning yourself. Now that you’re beginning to understand your feelings, go further by moving towards those feelings rather than going away from it dismissing it by staying focused more on your thoughts or judging yourself. Invite the loving presence of your higher self into your heart, and consciously open to learning about loving yourself. When your heart has mellowed down to understand your feelings, it’s time to explore the innermost fears and false beliefs which you actually formulated about yourself. If you feel heartbroken, lonely, or helpless over someone, find out within yourself and try to understand what is causing these painful feelings. The answers will just come in words or images or in dreams; when your heart is open to learning, the answers will come. Then take the loving action of allowing time to heal the shame, anxiety and depression, and overtime, loving yourself and connecting with yourself is the key to loving and connecting with others.
Follow your own path
When you have made that important decision to live the life that you want to live, you will become attracted to the right people who share your own views about life.
Fantasizing your partner
Beware of being caught up in your romantic notions of looking for an imaginative partner, whom you think is the perfect guy. When you continue to fantasize, you begin to behave in such a way as if your imaginative partner is with you and begin to look at others in the hope that they fit the bill of fantasy. This will result into your wandering away from reality and from the real path of your life.
The laws of attraction is influential and powerful, and so, it tells us that in due season, the right person, who is fated to be your partner, will turn up. Act now and be socially involved by going out on dates, making more friends, and being socially visible.
Get rid, as soon as possible with that emotional baggage, which is a useless load adding so much heaviness without getting resolutions. When you have discovered to love yourself, that emotional baggage should have been the first thing to leave from your heart.