Developing Personal Respect
It is within the public domain that trust fits best in oneself. In spite of this, people do not friendship with themselves. This is not to say people are not strong, healthy and always happy. This is clear as most people want to please others. People ought to be as they are of great value than pleasing others to like you. Putting oneself at a position that you only seek for compliments means you will be hurt by negative sentiments.
People must learn to trust, respect and love themselves. It opens up the mind that those who claim to love and like them, actually do not. Others would only derive joy in changing people from their original self. The latter makes a person knowledgeable and awesome. Personal health, strength and happiness are not signs that you have established personal friendship.
You have to lay the foundation of yourself by putting in place a strong inner strength. People who make personal decisions are always respected. They have an independent mind, stand by their decisions, and stick to what their conscious dictates. Those offering leadership morals do not do anything because others said or did. To be honest, do not give yourself to people too much but retain an element of consultation with trusted allies.
Respect for short-term agents diminishes with time. People do not have self-confidence and do not respect you when you fail to make personal decisions. An independent mind and personal respect go hand-in-hand. Even in public, do not be afraid to stand tall, share your thoughts and make eye contact with the audience. Characteristics of people who are not strong include mumbling, trailing off and shying off.
Keep your emotional roller coaster burning. Life is filled with compliments and that is normal. People appreciate you attire, dress code and even and even walking style. In spite of all the appreciation, do not strive to receive them. Let the appreciation come as a by-the-way. It will hurt when the compliment is not made. Self-confidence goes up in their immediately. It will kill your self-esteem. It will disorganize anything you plan in your life. Putting yourself at a position that you only seek for compliments means you will be hurt by negative sentiments.
Put yourself first and everything else will be okay. Doing what others like means you are acting in life. However, your actual personality shines when you more relaxed. In life, do not give yourself to people too much but retain an element of consultation with trusted allies. Trust is the pillar of any partnership, friendship and business association. Honest people are always respected in the society. Be polite and friendly always and keep of vices such as rudeness. People with independent minds are role models to many.